Here's a message a reader just had to leave so I thought I'd post it. Feel free to leave your own comment regarding her words of wisdom.
I really think you people are a bit bizzarre. If the man is "the man", then he should help his wife in every way. Brag on her when she pleases you - I mean for the boring that NO BODY wants to do - cleaning bathroom, vacuum the floors - that is boring and should be rewarded. For me, sex would be a good reward. Also, I hear a lot on these sites about "the man" demanding oral sex when she "can't" give him regular sex!Hello? Didn't any of you have sisters or female cousins? If you are the "true leader", then you should give the woman head all the time - except "that time", if neither of you wants. And you should DEFINITELY help her with diet restrictions during that time (constipation is a primary cause of severe pain in women of child-bearing age at that time of the month. How can you say you are "spanking " her for her own good and yet...you don't know anything about women? If you believe the premise that a woman NEEDS a man to "take care of her", then TAKE CARE OF HER!!! Don't lecture - you aren't so stupid that you believe that is for her own good; it's nagging, impure & dishonest. Pet her or cuddle or whatever works after she is spanked and put ice on her owiees. Make sure she is hydrated. If you whip & whip & lecture & stand her in a corner & don't praise her and you OBJECT TO EVERY THOUT she has, you are NOT a loving husband. You are an abuser. Withholding affection, constantly criticizing and not keeping her receiving the basic physical needs that would be afforded a woman criminal in an American prison is not creating a perfect wife. It's sick and you will be a sad, sad man because your wife will lose her vitality & all the traits you felt worthy in the beginning.