I would imagine that every man would love to hear the words, "Just tell me what you want and I'll do it.", coming from the lips of their wife or girl friend. My wife said those very same words awhile back and was totally sincere about it too. If I want her to walk around the house with just a shirt on and bare from the waist down she'll take off what's needed. If she's in the kitchen and I come in and start getting frisky she doesn't push me away or ask me to stop. If I unbutton her jeans and then start sliding them and her panties down to her ankles she step out of them. She wants me to have what I want and that's an incredible feeling.
In return I provide and give her what she wants and needs. It would be better to ask her just what those are but like every relationship, even with a DD/HOH one, there's give and take and sharing with each other. I do for her because it puts a smile on her face and makes her happy. In return she does the same for me.