Friday, December 27, 2013
Thursday, December 26, 2013
Sunday, December 22, 2013
No matter what others think, in her mind she got just what she needed and deserved! She knew what she needed to do and she was given plenty of time to get it done. She knew well ahead of time what was going to happen if it wasn't done so her red bottom isn't a surprise to her at all. In the end, she respects that fact that she was taken in hand by a real man who wasn't afraid of doing what needed to be done!
Saturday, December 21, 2013
Saturday, December 14, 2013
A few weeks back I had a comment from an anonymous viewer, reader, of this blog so I posted the comment. She was obviously not a supporter of spanking in anyway and gave her two cents about how much of a jerk I must be and how little of a man I am for spanking my wife. She gave her opinion on what things I should do and how I shouldn't spank. I didn't comment on her opinion really I just posted it and let her have her say. But now it's my turn to say a few things. I haven't gone back to the comment to read it because it says a lot of things that are "assuming" something is or isn't the way it really is so she's, to me, just speaking out of her ass!
I believe that my wife would be the first to tell you that from time to time, or even more than that, she needs a spanking. She would also tell you that I don't go around looking for reasons to spank her either. She would probably say the reasons are right there in front of you. lol
I believe she would tell you that I have a great sense of humor and that I don't get into moods were I'm a tyrant and selfish about my wants either. She knows I want to walk into a clean house. I want to walk into a clean kitchen, bathroom and bedroom. She wants the same thing too. She knows I simply want some order to things. Her biggest challenge isn't not wanting to clean or do certain things it's organizing her time. She starts one thing and takes too long in doing it because she gets caught up in it and before you know it other things she wanted and needed to do didn't get done.
She would be the first to admit that it's the spanking, or spankings, that help keep her on track with what needs to be done. It's her incentive. She doesn't want a diamond ring, fancy clothes, brand new cars, etc., so getting her those things aren't a reward to her for cleaning the house or an incentive in achieving order in her life.
It's our agreement, her getting spanked and me being the HOH. Why do people have to leave nasty comments regarding how THEY think someone they don't even know should live their life? I'm not by any means a fan of the woman being the HOH and the man being submissive but I don't go around to blogs where that relationship is practiced and leave nasty comments. What's the point?
So, it's about that time for my wife to get another round of spankings for things she's not done lately. When you start reading about them understand that she has free will and if she thought for a second she didn't deserve them or that I was abusive and unfair then she simply wouldn't get across my lap.
Friday, December 13, 2013
Tuesday, December 3, 2013
Friday, November 29, 2013
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Here's a message a reader just had to leave so I thought I'd post it. Feel free to leave your own comment regarding her words of wisdom.
I really think you people are a bit bizzarre. If the man is "the man", then he should help his wife in every way. Brag on her when she pleases you - I mean for the boring that NO BODY wants to do - cleaning bathroom, vacuum the floors - that is boring and should be rewarded. For me, sex would be a good reward. Also, I hear a lot on these sites about "the man" demanding oral sex when she "can't" give him regular sex!Hello? Didn't any of you have sisters or female cousins? If you are the "true leader", then you should give the woman head all the time - except "that time", if neither of you wants. And you should DEFINITELY help her with diet restrictions during that time (constipation is a primary cause of severe pain in women of child-bearing age at that time of the month. How can you say you are "spanking " her for her own good and yet...you don't know anything about women? If you believe the premise that a woman NEEDS a man to "take care of her", then TAKE CARE OF HER!!! Don't lecture - you aren't so stupid that you believe that is for her own good; it's nagging, impure & dishonest. Pet her or cuddle or whatever works after she is spanked and put ice on her owiees. Make sure she is hydrated. If you whip & whip & lecture & stand her in a corner & don't praise her and you OBJECT TO EVERY THOUT she has, you are NOT a loving husband. You are an abuser. Withholding affection, constantly criticizing and not keeping her receiving the basic physical needs that would be afforded a woman criminal in an American prison is not creating a perfect wife. It's sick and you will be a sad, sad man because your wife will lose her vitality & all the traits you felt worthy in the beginning.
Friday, November 15, 2013
Wednesday, November 13, 2013
One of the things I was keenly aware of in the World of Spanking between couples, was sex. A huge majority of couples into DD, HOH and just plain spanking incorporate sex in their play. They don't incorporate sex all the time because many DD and HOH couples also use spanking as straight punishment as I do in my relationship with my wife. However, it seemed that this topic was almost taboo and to include sex with spanking was like a hidden secret for many Spankers and spankees.
I read comments from viewers where my video demos are posted and the majority who comment on my "Training Videos" love them but occasionally there is a negative comment from someone who thinks the two shouldn't go together. You know, what goes on between to consenting adults is their business. Our viewers and customers really like our "Training Videos" but they also really like our straight forward "Spanking Videos" too.
Every creative genre tries something and if it works they improve on it and if it doesn't they move. Our Training Videos work really well but it's time to move on to a different phase with them. I love my wife in more ways than I can express and Spank Her 4 Real Training Videos have been uncomfortable for her to even know that I do them. I have wanted to continue doing them but only as the director and editor if you will. It's been uncomfortable for me too so I've decided that I've done my last "Training Video" as the Spanker, or Trainer.
Our next stage of "Training Videos" will be to find "Real Couples" who would like to do them on a regular basis or to find a "Spanker" who can take my place. I'm really looking forward to this new stage because it provides a wider variety for our "Training Video" genre.
The most important thing to me isn't money, fame, power or sex. I've learned over the years that it really comes down to being happy and enjoying your everyday life. In saying that I want my family to be happy and enjoy life as well. Doing the "Training Videos" does cause my wife to feel uncomfortable about them and to be honest me too. I've done what I wanted to do with them because I hadn't seen any "Training" videos from spanking video companies. Now we have them, their available and that's that. Like I wrote before I really want to produce, direct and edit them from now and no longer be in them.
I'm going to start a simple search for a Spanker to take my place in them and would like to also find Real Couples who would like to do them. It's funny but I really feel liberated in making this decision. In a small part because I'm getting older everyday. And who wants to see an old guy in those kinds of videos anyway? But more important because I want NOTHING to get between my wife and me when it comes to our love for each other and the Training Videos put an unnecessary strain on our relationship were none needed to be.
Friday, November 8, 2013
Tuesday, November 5, 2013
If I've learned anything about spanking it's that you can't just spank because you can. My wife has been going through a very rough time do to stomach problems. Her doctor started her on a medication that seemed to provide some relief of the pain for awhile but it wasn't doing the job completely. More tests were done and now new medication should take care of what was going on.
So I explained that to explain that during the last 3 or 4 months things, as in rules, haven't been getting done. Any other asshole Dominant Husband might just spank away and not consider other factors. I don't spank just to spank. I look at as much of what's going on as I can. Are there emotional issues going on that need to be addressed, such as illness, a death in the family or a friend and so on. You can't just spank because you want to spank that's not right.
Things have gotten lax around the house but with this new medication I'm hoping first and foremost that my wife is feeling better and back to her ol' self. Once she is it will be much easier for her to get caught up with things. It's not just what I want in the matter it's also what she wants. She wants things to be in order and clean. She wants to go to the gym on a regular basis. But first she wants to feel better and not be in pain all the time.
Friday, November 1, 2013
Friday, October 25, 2013
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
Friday, October 18, 2013
Friday, October 11, 2013
Sunday, October 6, 2013
Usually it takes a minute or two into her spanking before there's much of a fuss. A fuss might be my wife simply getting louder vocally as the spanking goes on. This time she was a bit more emotional because the parking tickets turned out to be more than we were told because of extra fees. Plus the time, gas and extra trouble it took to get to the court house.
She certainly got spanked and it was sound but this time she was crying 20 seconds into the spanking and by a minute she was putting her hand back to protect her bottom. This is something she's never done before so I didn't see it a rebellious and trying to get out of the spanking. The crying and the hand back there was telling me she was REALLY sorry and also emotional. I kept going but didn't make the spanking as long and as hard as I have in the past and the next day she suggested we finish the spanking because in her mind it wasn't has hard and long as it should have been.
That's another reason why I love her. But the fact is it's over. She was spanked emotionally and then physically so there's no need to spank again for her tickets. I just don't want to see unpaid tickets, or tickets again.
Friday, October 4, 2013
Thursday, October 3, 2013
So, I go on line this morning to update the License Tabs on our car but discover I can't because of UNPAID PARKING TICKETS! I know they're not MY parking tickets and since no one else drives the car except my wife it must be her.
Now we not only have to pay for tabs but can't get the tabs until we pay for parking tickets. I think a good morning spanking is totally in order this morning. Since my wife gets up and goes through her emails first thing I'm sure she will see this also. So, I will be expecting her to text me when she's ready for her spanking this morning.
Friday, September 27, 2013
Thursday, September 26, 2013
Some years ago, before the internet, texting and even before the average person had a cell phone dating was a bit different in many respects. Today if you have "kinky" tendencies you can go to a variety of sites and seek out someone who thinks and feels the same way. Back in my early years of dating it was next to impossible to find out if the woman you were dating or wanting to date was into spanking or not. You would learn different ways of finding out, eventually, but that process was sometimes long and arduous.
There were a few women who I dated and expressed my feelings regarding spanking. Their reactions were very similar in that they felt that because they weren't into spanking, whether DD, HOH or just for play, that I could just push an "off" button and not be into spanking myself. Boy were they wrong. And the few times I tried doing just that, turning off the spanking button, I found out I was wrong too.
The fact is that you can't force a spanking on anyone who doesn't want one, I mean really you can't. I recently gave a butt blistering spanking to a submissive, which I filmed, who had some interesting things to say about spanking. She likes being spanked, and soundly, for a variety of reasons I won't go into and when I told her my wife gets spanked because we're in a DD, HOH relationship but she, my wife, isn't INTO spanking she laughed and said, "On, she's into spanking or you wouldn't be able to spank her."
It took a few days for that to sink in and register but I've come to realize that she was right. My wife isn't into spanking when it comes to the pain of getting her bottom bared and spanked. She's into spanking in regard to submitting to my authority and being punished for something she didn't do or did do and wasn't suppose to. If I tell her in the morning she's going to get spanked she dreads the rest of the day until she gets spanked so I now bring it up 30 minutes or so before so she doesn't go through the anxiety. If she wasn't into spanking there is no way I would be able to spank her. I doubt 5 grown men could pin her down and spank her against her will.
And that's what it really comes down to is her free will to submit. It's noticeable to me, after every spanking she's gotten, that there's a change in her attitude. It isn't an "I'll just got my bottom blistered and I hate you," attitude. It's more of a "Thank you for being a man and HOH and giving me what I needed," attitude. In many ways it's an affirmation that I still love her and care about and for her. I love my wife for so many reasons and her spankings are icing on the cake for me on so many levels.
Friday, September 20, 2013
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Saturday, September 14, 2013
Friday, September 13, 2013
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
I don't feel I'm a demanding person but when some things aren't done then a bottom gets bared and spanked. When I got home last night, after work, I discovered that a few things I had asked to be done weren't even started, namely dinner. My wife quickly admitted that she lost track of time doing something else and when I pointed to our bedroom she knew exactly what was going to happen.
We walked in, she pulled everything down, got across my lap and had no excuse for not have the things done that I wanted done. That was a good thing on her part because it shorten the spanked considerably. After her spanking she got on her knees on the bed and I took her from behind as I gazed at her freshly spanked red bottom.
All in all yesterday ended very well for me.
Monday, September 9, 2013
A woman pregnant with her first child paid a visit to her obstetrician’s office.
After the exam, she shyly said “My husband wants me to ask you…,” to which the doctor replies, “I know, I know,” placing a reassuring hand on her shoulder.”I get asked that all the time. Making love is fine until late in the pregnancy.”
“No, that’s not it,” the woman confessed “He wants to know if I can still mow the lawn.”
Friday, September 6, 2013
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
Friday, August 30, 2013
Friday, August 23, 2013
Monday, August 19, 2013
I am big on organizing. I wouldn't say I'm anal about it but I do see value in being organized. If my wife needs a screw driver, hammer, tape, etc, she knows where it's kept in my wood shop.
I started a relatively small project in order to organize some space and I find that getting her to help has been like pulling teeth. She reads my blog whenever there's a new post so I'm sure she will read today's post.
This project will be completed today or her bottom is going to look like LeAnne's in the picture above.
Saturday, August 17, 2013
Wow! The first thing I thought of when I saw this is my wife.
She's my candy girl. Always ready and willing for me to have her when I want her. Like most husbands I want to give her everything but unlike most wives she doesn't ask for much. She's nurturing, passionate, caring and loving. She gives without expecting anything in return and works to waste nothing.
She had one of those dreadful days this week that comes around once a year, her birthday. I didn't want to announce it on her actual birthday so I'm doing it today. This is not only my favorite position but it's her's as well. I'm doing something for her today that may seem trivial to many but I know she appreciates it. It's been a slow economic recovery for the U.S. and we're still feeling the squeeze financially too.
She has been so supportive toward my endeavors that some days I wake up and can't believe she belongs to me and I belong to her. I love her with every breath I take and every move she makes.
Friday, August 16, 2013
Thursday, August 15, 2013
Tuesday, August 13, 2013
For someone of my generation John Wayne is one of the first men you think about when you think of a Man. There's no doubt in my mind that Wayne was a spanker. You can see that in so many of his movies. In his later years of movie making he was the producer so he had a huge say in how and what was done and said.
Movies are movies of course and no matter how you try to make them as real as possible they're still movies. Still, John Wayne worked at conveying honorable attributes a man should have in his roles.
Recently my wife and I had a conversation about how we met and what attracted us to each other. At the time we met neither of us were shopping for a mate or companion. My wife very much liked the idea that I was Dominant but not forceful. I'm an Alpha male who leads and doesn't drag or try to force others to follow. Many Dominant men have NO sense of humor either. They can't tell a joke or take one. I'm not that way.
Those I care about simply must enjoy life. I want to see them laugh at least a few times in a day. Laughter is so healthy for a person. If you can't laugh there must be something wrong.
I love the fact that my wife has a healthy amount of independence and can take care of things. She recently took a small trip using our truck and actually checked the oil when she arrived at her destination. She bought oil, climbed in the engine compartment (I'd like to think her ass was sticking proudly in the air, but that's me) and put oil in the truck. She is by no means helpless. However, a quality that attracted me to her was that she wasn't helpless but saw her submission to her man as simply natural and proper.
Throughout my day I'm always observing how others are. I can be at the check out register pretty much anywhere and tell you if the woman at the register is Dominant or submissive, same as I can with men.
What I find somewhat sad today is that there seems to be much confusion regarding a person's role in the world or relationships. The T.V. and movies, even commercials, send out messages to people about how they should and shouldn't be. In the end we basically have to make that choice. I had to. One day I woke up and said, "By damn I'm a spanker and I'm not going to hide that fact anymore."
Sunday, August 11, 2013
Saturday, August 10, 2013
Friday, August 9, 2013
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
A spanked wife is a happy wife. I have no doubt there are many who wouldn't understand that sentence. But those wives out there who are loved by their husbands, and spanked by their husbands, understand the dynamics.
If there's something my wife knows she shouldn't be doing and keeps getting away with it then she begins to feel that I don't care or love her. If I did care and love her then I'd take care of her behavior. For those in the lifestyle it makes perfect sense but for others it's strange. From time to time I even get email from spankee's who are only into spanking because they LIKE it or use it as stress release. My answer to them is, "Good for you."