Friday, August 30, 2013
Friday, August 23, 2013
Monday, August 19, 2013
I am big on organizing. I wouldn't say I'm anal about it but I do see value in being organized. If my wife needs a screw driver, hammer, tape, etc, she knows where it's kept in my wood shop.
I started a relatively small project in order to organize some space and I find that getting her to help has been like pulling teeth. She reads my blog whenever there's a new post so I'm sure she will read today's post.
This project will be completed today or her bottom is going to look like LeAnne's in the picture above.
Saturday, August 17, 2013
Wow! The first thing I thought of when I saw this is my wife.
She's my candy girl. Always ready and willing for me to have her when I want her. Like most husbands I want to give her everything but unlike most wives she doesn't ask for much. She's nurturing, passionate, caring and loving. She gives without expecting anything in return and works to waste nothing.
She had one of those dreadful days this week that comes around once a year, her birthday. I didn't want to announce it on her actual birthday so I'm doing it today. This is not only my favorite position but it's her's as well. I'm doing something for her today that may seem trivial to many but I know she appreciates it. It's been a slow economic recovery for the U.S. and we're still feeling the squeeze financially too.
She has been so supportive toward my endeavors that some days I wake up and can't believe she belongs to me and I belong to her. I love her with every breath I take and every move she makes.
Friday, August 16, 2013
Thursday, August 15, 2013
Tuesday, August 13, 2013
For someone of my generation John Wayne is one of the first men you think about when you think of a Man. There's no doubt in my mind that Wayne was a spanker. You can see that in so many of his movies. In his later years of movie making he was the producer so he had a huge say in how and what was done and said.
Movies are movies of course and no matter how you try to make them as real as possible they're still movies. Still, John Wayne worked at conveying honorable attributes a man should have in his roles.
Recently my wife and I had a conversation about how we met and what attracted us to each other. At the time we met neither of us were shopping for a mate or companion. My wife very much liked the idea that I was Dominant but not forceful. I'm an Alpha male who leads and doesn't drag or try to force others to follow. Many Dominant men have NO sense of humor either. They can't tell a joke or take one. I'm not that way.
Those I care about simply must enjoy life. I want to see them laugh at least a few times in a day. Laughter is so healthy for a person. If you can't laugh there must be something wrong.
I love the fact that my wife has a healthy amount of independence and can take care of things. She recently took a small trip using our truck and actually checked the oil when she arrived at her destination. She bought oil, climbed in the engine compartment (I'd like to think her ass was sticking proudly in the air, but that's me) and put oil in the truck. She is by no means helpless. However, a quality that attracted me to her was that she wasn't helpless but saw her submission to her man as simply natural and proper.
Throughout my day I'm always observing how others are. I can be at the check out register pretty much anywhere and tell you if the woman at the register is Dominant or submissive, same as I can with men.
What I find somewhat sad today is that there seems to be much confusion regarding a person's role in the world or relationships. The T.V. and movies, even commercials, send out messages to people about how they should and shouldn't be. In the end we basically have to make that choice. I had to. One day I woke up and said, "By damn I'm a spanker and I'm not going to hide that fact anymore."
Sunday, August 11, 2013
Saturday, August 10, 2013
Friday, August 9, 2013
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
A spanked wife is a happy wife. I have no doubt there are many who wouldn't understand that sentence. But those wives out there who are loved by their husbands, and spanked by their husbands, understand the dynamics.
If there's something my wife knows she shouldn't be doing and keeps getting away with it then she begins to feel that I don't care or love her. If I did care and love her then I'd take care of her behavior. For those in the lifestyle it makes perfect sense but for others it's strange. From time to time I even get email from spankee's who are only into spanking because they LIKE it or use it as stress release. My answer to them is, "Good for you."