Friday, April 13, 2012

Why I spank bare bottom


I spank bare bottom because there's a thought process to it.  When I tell my wife she's going to get a spanking, and it's time, then she's the one who pulls everything down and bares her bottom.  To me that's her consent.  It's her way, even though she may be protesting verbally, of saying I'm going to submit to your will and get spanked of my own free will.

Sometimes after baring her bottom she plops herself across my lap as a final protest but it doesn't keep her from her spanking.  I also spank bare bottom because I can see what is happening.  In other words I can tell if I'm spanking too hard or too light.  Once I see her bottom turn a nice red I can tell she's been taught her lesson.



8 comments:

  1. When I get married I want may husband to dominate me and turning my bottom red would be an excellant way to do it.

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  2. Turning your bottom red is an excellent way of dominating you. However I'm assuming you are ready to submit to your husband turning your bottom red?

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  3. I love men like you. If only they were Gay. Only a man who loves me enough to straighten me out with a good bare bottom spanking, is worthy of my respect and love. The rest are. Well, you know what.

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  4. my husband made me bare my own bottom, including panties off as a sign of my agreement with the need for a spanking.

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  5. Some women are simply more confortable others with the idea of being spanked by a man. Although this is not the same as their liking being spanked, they derive a sense of security from the experience. On the other hand, women tend to vary on baring their behinds. While some want to take it all off, other expect the man to bare the necessary area. Much of it seems to depend on circumstances, prior experiences, and expectations.

    My first serious spanking experience was with a woman old enough to have been my mother. The first time, she took off everything and she even went so far as to put herself over my lap. Having been both a mother, and at one time a daughter, she'd experienced spanking from both sides of the coin and knew what it was about. As a result, she was prepared to "learn her lesson" the old-fashioned way.

    The first time I spanked my wife, we were dating. At the time, she was in her late teens and thoroughly embarrassed that she was going to get spanked like a little girl. As a result, she expected me to assume the role of a parent. To make things go more smoothly, I did everything from pulling down her pants to putting her over my lap. She admitted later that the pain turned out to be worse than the embarrassment!

    Although both women admitted they deserved to be punished for their respective misbehaviors, their preliminary expectations were polar opposites. Yet, both women expressed feeling a sense of security in knowing a man could handle them.

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    1. I am a young wife of 25 my husband is ten years older than me. When we got married my dad told Neil I needed a firm hand to keep me in line, I do admit to being a bit rebellious and was moreso in my teens. Neil took my dads comment as gospel, and on our honeymoon in Holland we went shopping for a large wooden backed hairbrush ( this serves two purposes) back home he told me if I stepped out of line or didn't do my wifely duties I would be spanked with my new hairbrush. I thought he was joking and smiling I wiggled my bottom at him, that was when he said perhaps he should give me a sample of what to expect. I was told to go to our room and take off my skirt tights and panties, I looked at him and said " You are joking aren't you" He led me by the arm upstairs and told me to undress he picked up the hairbrush and tapping his hand with it I knew he was serious I started to undress, when I was naked from the waist down I suddenly felt very embarrassed , I had never been spanked before not even by my dad or mum. He placed me across the bed with two pillows under my stomach so my bottom was high in the air he told me this was how I would be spanked in future, I was told to straighten my legs, to do so I had to part them slightly. He gave me six sharp strokes, three on each buttock, my tears came after the second one and after all six my bottom was on fire as he told me to hold my position for ten minutes and not to touch my bottom. He sat in a chair and said that was just a sample of what to expect if I got out of line. I don't know which is worse the spanking or the humiliation of being put in that position knowing I am so exposed. I was only allowed to put my skirt back on which he then tucked the back up into the waist band saying my punishment must be seen. I made sure I kept well away form the windows, my bottom stung for the next two days, I couldn't bare to sit or even wear panties or tights. I have endured five further serious spankings since then each one as humiliating as the first one, the most embarrassing part I think is having to keep my stinging red bottom bare on display afterwards and not being able to touch it. I too feel secure in knowing that Neil can handle me

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  6. During a subsequent discussion, the older woman that I spanked as a teenager admitted age doesn't matter when it comes getting spanked. From an about to be disciplined woman's perspective, there's no graceful way to go over the spanker's lap. The moment of surrender is always a little awkward.

    In addition, there's the initial shock that comes when a woman either hasn't been spanked it quite a while or, as in your case, has never been spanked. According to one domestic discipline website owner, about half the women in domestic discipline relationships weren't spanked as children.

    According to my wife, total nudity further enhances a woman's sense of vulnerability when she's going to wind up prone under her husband's raised hand rather than supine to receive his erection.

    My wife also let me know long ago that she hated to take a spanking while bent over an inanimate object. She said she's more secure when she has no other option except to let her bottom absorb the consequences for her choices and cry about it.

    From the start, she needs assurance that her husband will prevail in the matter. When it's over, she expects to be thoroughly submissive. Otherwise, according to her, getting her butt beat serves no useful purpose!

    My wife frankly admits being made to stand red bottomed and naked in a corner afterwards is worse than being told in that certain voice to take her clothes off.

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  7. I too spank my wife. She's my second wife and it's something I started with my first wife. It's completely different with my second wife than it was my first though. It was a kinky sex thing with my first wife and it never was really for any type of punishment. It's kind of both with this wife. She doesn't love being spanked but it helps keep the line clear regarding our positions in the relationship. By the way, she is an awesome wife!! I think it would surprise most men how many women would go along with the spanking, but it's all definitely in the approach. If you let your spouse run over you, they are probably not going to submit to spankings.

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