Friday, September 27, 2013
Thursday, September 26, 2013
Some years ago, before the internet, texting and even before the average person had a cell phone dating was a bit different in many respects. Today if you have "kinky" tendencies you can go to a variety of sites and seek out someone who thinks and feels the same way. Back in my early years of dating it was next to impossible to find out if the woman you were dating or wanting to date was into spanking or not. You would learn different ways of finding out, eventually, but that process was sometimes long and arduous.
There were a few women who I dated and expressed my feelings regarding spanking. Their reactions were very similar in that they felt that because they weren't into spanking, whether DD, HOH or just for play, that I could just push an "off" button and not be into spanking myself. Boy were they wrong. And the few times I tried doing just that, turning off the spanking button, I found out I was wrong too.
The fact is that you can't force a spanking on anyone who doesn't want one, I mean really you can't. I recently gave a butt blistering spanking to a submissive, which I filmed, who had some interesting things to say about spanking. She likes being spanked, and soundly, for a variety of reasons I won't go into and when I told her my wife gets spanked because we're in a DD, HOH relationship but she, my wife, isn't INTO spanking she laughed and said, "On, she's into spanking or you wouldn't be able to spank her."
It took a few days for that to sink in and register but I've come to realize that she was right. My wife isn't into spanking when it comes to the pain of getting her bottom bared and spanked. She's into spanking in regard to submitting to my authority and being punished for something she didn't do or did do and wasn't suppose to. If I tell her in the morning she's going to get spanked she dreads the rest of the day until she gets spanked so I now bring it up 30 minutes or so before so she doesn't go through the anxiety. If she wasn't into spanking there is no way I would be able to spank her. I doubt 5 grown men could pin her down and spank her against her will.
And that's what it really comes down to is her free will to submit. It's noticeable to me, after every spanking she's gotten, that there's a change in her attitude. It isn't an "I'll just got my bottom blistered and I hate you," attitude. It's more of a "Thank you for being a man and HOH and giving me what I needed," attitude. In many ways it's an affirmation that I still love her and care about and for her. I love my wife for so many reasons and her spankings are icing on the cake for me on so many levels.
Friday, September 20, 2013
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Saturday, September 14, 2013
Friday, September 13, 2013
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
I don't feel I'm a demanding person but when some things aren't done then a bottom gets bared and spanked. When I got home last night, after work, I discovered that a few things I had asked to be done weren't even started, namely dinner. My wife quickly admitted that she lost track of time doing something else and when I pointed to our bedroom she knew exactly what was going to happen.
We walked in, she pulled everything down, got across my lap and had no excuse for not have the things done that I wanted done. That was a good thing on her part because it shorten the spanked considerably. After her spanking she got on her knees on the bed and I took her from behind as I gazed at her freshly spanked red bottom.
All in all yesterday ended very well for me.
Monday, September 9, 2013
A woman pregnant with her first child paid a visit to her obstetrician’s office.
After the exam, she shyly said “My husband wants me to ask you…,” to which the doctor replies, “I know, I know,” placing a reassuring hand on her shoulder.”I get asked that all the time. Making love is fine until late in the pregnancy.”
“No, that’s not it,” the woman confessed “He wants to know if I can still mow the lawn.”