I actually spanked by wife on Valentine's Day. It wasn't planned. She just gotten too wound up for her own good. It had also been awhile since she'd been spanked. We've been married long enough that I didn't have to tell her what was going to happen and she didn't protest. We both knew she was overdue. After a good cry, she admitted while still over my knee that it unwound her and she felt much better. Since then, she's been much happier.