So you were asked,..

So you were asked, the you being a submissive, to do something that wasn't at all hard to do and was right up your ally.  You said, "Yes I can do that."  

So I reply, "Can you get it done this week?"

Your answer, "I can do it Wednesday and Thursday."

I then respond with, "Are you sure?  It needs to get done because there are other things to do also.

Your reply, "I can get it done."

So, today is Thursday and it wasn't started yesterday, Wednesday, and it certainly wasn't started today either.  That means not only was it not finished by Thursday but it hasn't even been started.

This is a recurring theme and it seems a good spanking is the only way to change it.  What do you think?  Does my wife have a trip coming across my lap? 

Maybe she likes not sitting down?

Some days I think my wife must like the feeling of not being able to sit down.  She just gets spanked for one thing and then before you know it a few days later she's risking getting spanked for the very same thing again!  Is she thinking I won't spank her since I already have?

A Real Man knows,..

Starting a Spanking Social Club in Washington State

I've decided to call the Society or Club "Tanning Her Hide". There doesn't seem to be much to choose from in Washington state regarding any Socializing with "just" Spankers and Spankees. There is a social gathering in Seattle with a group called "The Palms Seattle" but they mostly meet for pizza, that I'm aware of.

So check out the site and see if it fits your desires and if it does then become a member and lets make it work together. If not a member then join to just follow.

http://tanningherhide.blogspot.com

Where's the beef spanking

One of the things my wife would admit she gives a reasonable amount of effort doing is "misdirection" in regard to her bottom getting spanked.

She knew a spanking was coming when I got home yesterday from work for her attitude and lack of concern toward preparing dinner the evening before.  So when I walked through the door I could clearly see the living room was picked up and vacuumed.  I could hear the laundry going and there she was in the kitchen putting dishes in the dishwasher too.  Those were things that needed to be done but the fact they were all being done at that time is part of her misdirection.  She figured that I would be happy to see what had gotten done and what was being done around the house so I'd forgive, or forget, what needed to happen regarding her spanking.

There have been plenty of times when I've fixed dinner for myself after work.  All of them have been good reasons and I had little to know problem with doing that.  It was a problem Thursday evening because I was just told that she was going to the store because there was a sale.  She didn't mention anything about bringing home a pizza, or fixing dinner when she got home, or me fixing dinner myself.  So when I sent her a text about when she'd home and did she plan on dinner she seemed unconcerned.  It's not that I'm helpless it's that I work all day and it is her job to prepare dinner, or make arrangements for dinner, not mine.

So when I got home Friday after work to find her loading the dishwasher I made it quick with I'll see you in our bed room.  There was no trying to get out of it as I followed her into the room.  I sat down on the edge of the bed as she pulled down and off her pants and panties and then she put herself across my lap.  It's not like this hasn't happened before either, not having dinner ready or planned.  She knows that if she's spanked for something then she'll stay on top of it.  If she's not spanked then she knows she'll continue pushing the limits.  Truth is she likes a man to put his foot down and say, "That's it, no more."  Putting my foot down means making her bottom red but she respects that and if she didn't then she wouldn't willfully put herself across my lap after striping from the waist down. 

I forgot to mention that her submissiveness and obedience to her spanking aroused me so much that after the hugs and kisses, that always follow her spankings, we made love with her red as up in the air and her moaning like she didn't want the sex to stop.