This is a great tool and will probably help her out. My hoh is home with me a lot so he can monitor my progress closely and remind me right away if I'm not on task, but if he was away a lot I think I would want something like this.
Do you always spank her with the hand or do you use sometimes the cane?
I only use the palm of my hand. I would never use the cane with my wife. If things got totally out of hand I would contemplate using a paddle but I don't see it ever coming to that.
We don't have a chore list/how many spankings. We do have a chore list and I am fully aware of what will happen if I don't complete it. I am getting really good at doing 100% but there are those days that things happen and I mess up. My bottom hurts for a long time.