I give my wife what she needs by keeping her in line and out of chaos. She has trouble with managing her time but works harder at it knowing that if she isn't managing her time well she'll get spanked. She need direction and even purpose and I feel I help provide both. For that her world rotates better.
I give her what she wants by being the Head of the House and being responsible and accountable. I also give her lots of love and absolutely love to have her sit on my face while my tongue drives her wild. Recently while I was licking her clit wild she began giving me a blowjob. That's been something hard for her to want to do because of her past but now she goes right to it and I love it and love her even more for doing it.