I'm on a few social spanking sites like fetlife and other forums and I find some things unbelievable when it comes to those sites and sometimes even my blogs. You go on them and create a thread, for whatever reason, and someone has to come along and bitch about whatever you've written about. Fetlife, for example is a bunch of kinsters in a social media type environment writing about their kinks or displaying pictures or writing about how they feel regarding anything. But every so often, once a week at least, there's always a feminist who has to bitch, bitch, bitch about how I and others like me, men who spank their wives, are sadistic male bastards. And who gave us the right to spank our wives!
Look, if you don't have something nice to say don't say it. Move on. We create these blogs and go on fetlife to meet and write to like minded people. If we wanted a bunch of crap from people we could easily do that by using other none kink social media sites. Some say I spank too hard. Others say I should use a leather strap and a cane. It doesn't mean they're wrong, I'm right or they're method is right and I've been spanking wrong all these years. It means everyone is different and lives within different levels, rules and feelings when it comes to kink or DD.
My wife isn't thrilled that she gets spanked when she needs it but she would agree she needs it from time to time and accepts that a good sound spanking is healthy for her. Sometimes more often than not. She isn't chained to the bed, or can't speak unless spoken to. She has a mind of her own and doesn't have to agree with me on everything, or else. She sees, as much as I do, how many women out there need their bottoms blistered too. So live and let live okay. Anyway, I think I just needed to vent today. Thanks!