There was one relationship that remains painful to this day. She was who I call "The Black Widow". She was a total con artist and our marriage lasted about years. It was about a month into the marriage when I saw the lies starting to unfold. I don't like to even remember her let alone talk about her in this blog. This will be the only time I will mention anything about her. Our relationship was a Domestic Discipline but she manipulated and twisted so many things that when she started seeing someone else I was actually thrilled.