Dedication!

Giving your wife a good sound spanking when she needs it demands dedication.  Just as she may not want her bottom bared and spanked there are times when you don't want to spank her.

But it's always important to remember that, in life, there are things we don't always want to do but have to.  Spanking is one of those things that a wife needs so it isn't always something on the "want to do" list.

It's always good to remember that her spanking is good for her and works wonders in keeping down the chaos in your family life.

Shaving Her Myself!

I discovered that it's much easier for me to shave my wife than for her to do it.  Not to mention it's fun!  Afterward, to check out how smooth my work is, we get in the 69 position and go to town.

I suppose this does get her out of getting spanked for not keeping herself shaved but it is much easier for her this way.  I would invite other husbands to do the same.  While your shaving you have good quality time talking about things too.

I consider myself rather blessed to have my wife in my life and I don't believe there is anything I wouldn't do for her, except NOT spank her when she needs it. 

The Most Chaotic Time of the Year!

It was around this time of the year that my wife and I met.  She was taking her daughter to different sights to sell Girl Scout cookies.  I think she's a wonderfully dedicated mother in doing all that she does to help her daughter sell those cookies.  But, it's around this time of the year that Chaos in her life is at its peak.

The living room, kitchen and just about every place in the house starts piling little messes that continue to grow.  It's around this time of the year that I find it hard to spank her.  On the one hand she's really dedicated and devoted to helping out the cookie sales but on the other hand she still needs to keep up with things around the house.

The kitchen sink has dishes piled so high that they are about 6 inches above the sink counter.  So, now it's time for some more spankings to keep things from getting too out of control.  There is so much to do during this month of cookie sales but there's also things around the house that shouldn't be neglected either.

Don't get me wrong I'm going to pitch in and do my part to help out the best I can so the cookie Goal this year can be reached.  However, I don't think it's fair to let other things go that should be done too.  If you have an opinion please leave a comment.  Thanks.

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Something to Consider?

So I get this email from a submissive named Samantha who lives near me and she wants me to consider her as a submissive.  I get this a lot and don't usually take is serious.  However, our correspondence lately leads me to believe that she is truly sincere. 

Dear Sir,

My name is Samantha and I just recently discovered how close I live to you.  I have watched your videos and believe I would benefit from your guidance and discipline.  I was previously involved in a Loving Domestic Discipline relationship and realize how necessary it is for me to be accountable for times when I am out of line.  While I do not enjoy the pain of spankings and firm discipline, I realize they help me to become a better person by learning to be more respectful, obedient, submissive, and feminine.

I am wondering if you would consider accepting me into your family as a submissive for your guidance, nurturing, training, and discipline.  I would like to know if there is an introduction period (ie a physical inspection, evaluation of obedience, etc.) or anything else I might anticipate should you allow me to submit to you.

Sincerely,

Samantha

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Spend, spend, spend!

Overall I'd have to say my wife is pretty good with keeping to our budget.  However, she does have moments were she fails miserably.  Fails miserably that is with sticking to our budget.  A few days ago the oil light came on in the car telling us it's time to change the oil, which it is over due.  The cost is nominal and along with getting a few things.

So my wife needed to use the car yesterday and that morning she said she hadn't slept all night.  When I asked her why I could see that was a question she didn't want me to ask her.  If you've ever watched Samantha on "Bewitched" try to explain something that she knows isn't going to go down well then you know pretty much how my wife does it too.

Long story short she over spent about $100 for the week and I told her this spanking would be a long slow burn.  We got home and she went straight to the bathroom and I went into my office figuring she was getting ready.  I went to check a few times and she was still in there.  So I went back to my office to wait and finally I came out to check and she was no longer in the bathroom but in our bedroom sleeping, or it appeared she was sleeping.

I knew she hadn't gotten much sleep because of the lack of sleep the night before and then all the errands she did yesterday so I thought I'd just let her sleep.  She knows she's in for a good bottom blistering and that will wait til I get home today.  She needs to be bare bottomed when I walk through the door and ready to get it over with, or it will be paddle time!

Spank or Not to Spank.

I waited a few days to see what the voting would be and I'm fairly surprised by the numbers.  I'm surprised by the lack of votes but hey that's fine.

So it turns out to be 7 in favor of me spanking my wife and 2 disagree with 2 comments stating that she shouldn't get spanked.  It could also be that the two that made comments also pushed disagree too, leaving the vote 7 to 2 instead of 7 to 4. 

The comments made suggested I had some responsibility to share in what happened.  However, I disagree with that.  It may seem that way but the real problem is not leaving the house on time to get to an appointment.  That is the problem.  

My wife can't be on time for choir, tutoring, church, parent teach conferences, etc, etc.  Although, the first time she had to pick me up from work, and was late, she got her pants pulled down and spanked the second we got home and since then she's never been late picking me up, when she's had to pick me up from work.

Spanking is quit the cure all for my wife.  And she will continue to get her spanking for being late, late, late until she realizes it's best to leave a little bit early.  Even if it means she gets somewhere 5 or 10 minutes early.  At least she's not making others wait for her to show up.