Structure!

I've realized that what my wife needs is structure to help her focus on the basic things that need to get done around the house.  So I came up with this to help her in providing structure!  Comments are always welcome!

Another day at the gym missed again!

There's simply not doubt in my mind that the best place for a wife who dismisses rules and chooses NOT to follow them is over my knee.  The effectiveness of not being able to sit comfortably is a reminder I encourage husbands to follow through with.

So, it's the start of a new week and there was NO trip to the gym last week.  So once again it's time for another reminder that getting to the gym is something my wife wanted to commit to.  She kept talking about how she wanted to get to the gym so this rule was set up as a way to encourage her.

New rule for my wife!

She can use the remote under one condition!  It's good for her and it's good for me so what's the harm.

Where's the beef spanking

One of the things my wife would admit she gives a reasonable amount of effort doing is "misdirection" in regard to her bottom getting spanked.

She knew a spanking was coming when I got home yesterday from work for her attitude and lack of concern toward preparing dinner the evening before.  So when I walked through the door I could clearly see the living room was picked up and vacuumed.  I could hear the laundry going and there she was in the kitchen putting dishes in the dishwasher too.  Those were things that needed to be done but the fact they were all being done at that time is part of her misdirection.  She figured that I would be happy to see what had gotten done and what was being done around the house so I'd forgive, or forget, what needed to happen regarding her spanking.

There have been plenty of times when I've fixed dinner for myself after work.  All of them have been good reasons and I had little to know problem with doing that.  It was a problem Thursday evening because I was just told that she was going to the store because there was a sale.  She didn't mention anything about bringing home a pizza, or fixing dinner when she got home, or me fixing dinner myself.  So when I sent her a text about when she'd home and did she plan on dinner she seemed unconcerned.  It's not that I'm helpless it's that I work all day and it is her job to prepare dinner, or make arrangements for dinner, not mine.

So when I got home Friday after work to find her loading the dishwasher I made it quick with I'll see you in our bed room.  There was no trying to get out of it as I followed her into the room.  I sat down on the edge of the bed as she pulled down and off her pants and panties and then she put herself across my lap.  It's not like this hasn't happened before either, not having dinner ready or planned.  She knows that if she's spanked for something then she'll stay on top of it.  If she's not spanked then she knows she'll continue pushing the limits.  Truth is she likes a man to put his foot down and say, "That's it, no more."  Putting my foot down means making her bottom red but she respects that and if she didn't then she wouldn't willfully put herself across my lap after striping from the waist down. 

I forgot to mention that her submissiveness and obedience to her spanking aroused me so much that after the hugs and kisses, that always follow her spankings, we made love with her red as up in the air and her moaning like she didn't want the sex to stop.

Where's the beef?

Kitchen tables serve a multitude of purposes, not to mention eating food on.  Last night my wife decided to go shopping before fixing dinner and got home far too late for two things.  First, she got home too late to fix dinner and two, she got home too late to be placed over the kitchen table to get her bottom blistered.  It wasn't so much that dinner hadn't been made but her attitude in a text that read, "Poor baby."

Well we'll see how her attitude is when I get home after work today.

Great Job!

I'd have to say that the kitchen table and living room were perfect and far exceeded my expectations for clean when I got home from work yesterday.  My wife did a great job.  Now the key is to keep it that way.  What happens is someone puts something down and leaves it and then a little more each day the piles creep up and before you know it there's a substantial mess.  So cheeks were spared yesterday and life is good.

I've been MORE than patient!

I have been more than patient with my wife but that has ended.  I expect the kitchen table to be cleared and clean, the kitchen cleaned and the living spotless when I get home tonight.  If they're not then she might as well be in the bedroom ready for a more than good ol' fashion spanking, a butt burner!

The path!

Getting things done but neglecting other things seems to be the constant path with my wife lately.  She reads this blog when ever I post so this is "Fair warning" that there are things that need to get done that have been neglected.  If they're not attended to the above color is what her bottom is going to be, and soon!

Why does a DD/HOH work with Spanking?

Those who don't understand spanking in marriage or relationships are missing out.  For the most part those who don't understand it think it's abusive and you must either be a masochist to receive spankings or a sadist to give them.  I'm no sadist and my wife is definitely not a masochist.  She receives a tremendous amount of respect from me because of her submissive to my authority and that can't be measured.

She knows just by seeing my actions that I'm making decisions that I feel are best for the whole family and not just selfish ones that benefit me.  I don't issue orders for things to be done and then set on my ass all day and do nothing.  She knows if something from me needs to be done I'll do it either right away or in a very reasonable amount of time.

She also knows that she does things that she wants and needs to do but leaves other things undone that need to be done.  For her spanking is what works.  I don't grab her by the wrist and pull her across my lap and wail away either.  It's a very calm process.  I tell her she's getting a spanking, sit down and she comes over to my right side.  She'll at times, try to talk her way out of it, but she's usually doing that while she's pulling her pants and panties down.  Then she lays across my lap and I remind her what the spanking is for and it starts.

She willingly submits to the spankings because it works for us and it quit frankly "just seems right".  

Dinner by 5:30!

In order for me and those I work with to have Monday off last week, Memorial Day, we agreed to work 10 hour days Tuesday through Friday.  That meant leaving for work at 4am and coming home around 4:30pm.  So that would give me just enough time to take a shower and chill a bit before sitting down to eat which I wanted ready by 5:30.  That way I could eat and relax with the family a bit until I go to bed at 7pm.

Well Tuesday night dinner was ready at about 5:45 so I didn't fuss all that much about it but Wednesday it wasn't ready until 6.  So I suggested to the girls that if dinner wasn't ready by at least 5:30 the rest of the week sitting might not be an option.  Guest what?  The following day and the day after that dinner was ready before 5:30.

The above picture is my wife working on cutting back some on a tree in our yard.  She's getting a lot done in the yard but still lacks focus to work on other things she needs to attend to.

FIST Spanking Fridays

It seems lately that Fridays are going from TGIF to FIST (Friday Is Spanking Time).  A few Fridays ago I put my wife across my lap and gave her a good spanking because she had neglected a room that she knew has needed to be cleaned and organized.  Last week we had great weather and a lot of yard work to do to get things ready so because she had worked on the room a bit more I let her pass last Friday on getting her bottom spanked again.  However this week the weather wasn't all that great for working outside and I expected the room to be worked on a lot more.  It still hasn't been worked on much or at all.  So, once again it's going to be a FIST Friday if I come home and don't see any real progress on the room.  I think I've been more than patient and it's time to get down to business if I don't see a vast improvement today after work.

Just the mention of a "S"

I don't know how others do it.  Other couples in Vanilla relationships I mean.  I'm guessing the do a bit of arguing and shifting the blame when it comes to this getting done or not done.

I left for work yesterday and mentioned a few things that needed to be done because I had not been instant of their priority and when I got home those things were done plus a few others.  No one shivered in their boots or felt that I was being unreasonable.  They were things that had been let go for awhile and needed to get done.

There are times, many times in fact, when I think the girls push things to the limit to test how far they can go and get away with think that's only natural.

Loom and Doom!

I don't want to live life like I'm an Ogre lurking around every corner waiting for my wife to mess up.  And I don't want her to feel the same way either but here's the thing.  She's known since last Friday that I wanted her to work on cleaning and organizing a specific room in our house.  She agreed that the room needed her serious attention and that she would have it done.  This past week the weather has been great so instead of working on the room she made the choice of going outside and working in the yard ALL week.  Now the yard is beginning to really take shape and I commend her for the fine job she did,..on the yard.  However, she didn't just disobey me regarding the room this week.  To me she willfully disobeyed me.  She made the decision to not spend even a minute on the room and do only what she wanted to do and not what needed to be done.

Before her spanking we had a talk on the couch in the living room and I could tell at first that she thought she would be getting away with it because of her kidding around and how she justified doing the yard work instead.  As if that made up for not doing what she needed to do with the room.  Finally, I could see her mood change and I could tell she was telling herself, "I'm not getting out of it this time."  So I sent her to our bedroom.

When I got there the lights where out and her bottom wasn't bared so immediately that made her up coming spanking longer and harder because she knows how she's supposed to get ready.  She slipped everything off from the waist down and slide across my lap on the bed and then she got it good.  Halfway into her spanking, as I could see her bottom went from a silky white to a soft red, I started getting very turned on.  Part of it is the sound of the spanking, part of it is the color of her bottom and part of getting turned on is her vocal expressions.  But overall I'm turned on by her complete submission to what was obviously a sound spanking.  

When the lesson to not disobey me was over I told her to get up on the bed, she knows the position, and she practically flew there.  So within seconds her bottom went from a flaming torch to her vagina being filled with my cock.  Her please for spanking comfort went into moans of, "Oh he's so hard."

Afterward she admitted that she tends to push the limits and that she deserved the spanking.  And she also added that she had forgotten, just a bit, about how heavy the palm of my hand is and how much my spankings sting.  It had been awhile.  So I suggested a weekly maintenance spanking and she said thanks but she didn't think she would need that. lol

Sometimes you just have to spank!

It's pretty simple.  I told my wife a week ago that I wanted a room cleaned and with some good weather this week she's been out in the yard pruning trees and fixing the yard.  It's good exercise for her and she is doing something.  However, she's not doing what she's been neglecting and putting off for much too long.  The room hasn't been touched and the living room is beginning to show signs of little piles of books and items that don't belong on the living room floor.

Tomorrow, Friday, I'm coming home from work with the expectation that the room will be clean!  If it isn't then her pants and panties might as well be off and she should be standing next to the chair waiting for me to put her across my lap for some time.

The many faces of my wife!

With all the drama going on this week in my wife's life she still managed to an amazing clean up job on half of the room she was to finish by yesterday.  It's a long story, and very private, but the drama is over now and finishing tasks will be much easier now.  I've given her till Friday the 11th now to completely finish the room.  She agreed wholeheartedly that it need to be finished and understands full well what will happen if it's not finished.

Spanking, at times, is simply what must be done!

There are days when coming home after work, bending my wife over the kitchen table after she's pulled down her pants and panties, taking off my belt and giving her a lesson is just what needs to be done.  She tends to get a false sense security that whatever she does or doesn't do is okay.


We have a room in our house that needs attention and once I've mentioned what needs to be done she's intelligent enough to pick up on the hint that she needs to do something about it, and soon.  So today, for example, if I haven't seen anything done with that room by the time I get home then sitting down for dinner is going to be a bit uncomfortable for her this evening.


It simply is what must be done.  I see vast improvements around the house because spanking were given and she knows what will happen if those areas get out of control again.  So those areas are doing very well. 

Legalize Spanking!

Legalize Spanking/Corporal Punishment for Consenting Adult Spouses/Partners by their Head Of House for Any and All Domestic Infractions.

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Doing one thing to get out of doing something else!

My wife tends to display a red bottom when performing her duties and it looks like a red bottom may be needed soon.

With Spring now here I, like always, tend to do the Spring cleaning thing.  Throughout Fall and Winter things in the house, garage and in the yard get neglected with items stored or piled up.  So I, like millions I suppose, like to go through everything and throw away what needs to go, keep stuff we don't use anymore to put in our garage sales and work on a list of things that need to be repaired or done before Fall sets in again.

However, my wife tends to see what NEEDS to be done and replaces it with other things she WANTS to get done or a NEW NEEDS to get done.  Take yesterday for an example.  I pointed out that things around the house needed to get done because she had errands that she needed to do and wanted to take off before household chores.  She assured me that there would be time to get chores done when she got home.  When she got home she fixed dinner and that's pretty much it.  The same laundry has been in the dryer since Thursday and I've been patient but it's now spanking time.  The living room is a mess this morning and she said she would straighten it up after her errands yesterday.  

She starts a temporary job tomorrow which will leave little to no time to do all that needs to be done around the house.  I understand and support her reason for the job but not at the sacrifice of other things that need her attention.  I joked last night that it would be uncomfortable for her when she goes to work because she will be sitting most of the day.  However, she may find it hard to sit!

 

Petition for Spanking your Spouse/Partner!

I thought it would be fun, at least controversial, to start a petition making it perfectly legal to spank your spouse male or female.  In my case spank my wife.  Here's the link (Just click the above picture to find out more. if you'd like to check it out).  Please don't read into this either.  This is for the purpose of Adult Consensual Domestic Discipline Only.  I do NOT promote spousal or partner Abuse!!

A Quiet and Effective Spanking!

There are times when your wife acts up and because you have guests or minor children in the house it may seem as though there is nothing you can do about her behavior right then and there.

The first rule is to never let your wife get away with acting up.  You must keep in mind that she wants you to be firm.  You are the Head of the House and she likes it that way.  But, she does tend to work it doesn't she?  "Oh honey you can't spank me now we have guests." or "If you spank me now the kids will hear."  So the remedy to anyone hearing your naughty wife get a spanking is to send her to your room, bare her bottom and have her lay on the bed with her face in a pillow.  Then grab a plastic coat hanger and start teaching her to NOT act out. 

Your guests or children will never know what happened for that 5 minutes or so that the two of you left the room because the coat hanger is a wonderfully silent stinger.  It's what must be done to prevent chaos and defiance in her attitude.  Once your wife begins to loose respect for your authority things start going down hill from there.  As long as she knows that no matter what the circumstance is, she will get spanked, then you'll have a long a wonderful marriage.