Saddle Sore Sundays

Taylor's well spanked bottom is a good example for us to start off our series "Saddle Sore Sundays". 

At least something good will happen in 2017!

Understanding the dynamics of spanking

It seems there are more people into BDSM than just spanking, or Domestic Discipline.  To me BDSM is more of a play fantasy escape that couples or people share from time to time.  I think if you say you're into BDSM it's safer than saying you're into, or participate in Domestic Discipline, HOH, spanking.

I've talked to a lot of Spankers and spankees over the years and many still don't understand the dynamic of spanking in context with Domestic Discipline.  Many will have this idea that it's abuse.

Every couple, when getting married, take vows.  The promise to do this and that and so on and so on.  They've most likely had many talks with each other about how their married life will be, or at least dream it will be.  There are hundreds of thousands, if not millions, of couples out there who took their vows and agreed on a great deal of things that would and wouldn't happen in their marriage but had know idea that their spouse would get drunk and beat them regularly.  Or that they had an anger problem and would take out their anger on them and the children.  The list can go on and on.

So, when my wife and I first got together it was understood that I spanked.  She agreed with my philosophy that from time to time a wife needed to go across her husband's lap for more than just one reason.  Believe me, my wife is a strong independent woman and if she didn't want to get spanked she would be able to fight it.  Since, I don't believe in physically taking her across my lap it is something she has to submit to.  In other words, I either send her to our room and tell her I'll be in there shortly.  In which she bares her bottom and waits for me to come in and administer her spanking. Or I will tell her I'll meet her in our room.  In that case I'm sitting on the edge of the bed, she comes in and strips from the waist down and puts herself across my lap for her spanking.   Neither of us see NO abuse there.

In addition, for me, each time that happens I gain a tremendous amount of respect for her.

Spanking my wife still means she has to submit to it.

There is always something else in my wife's life that needs to be done other than cleaning the house.  When I first saw the above picture it immediately reminded me of her.  She must know on a daily basis what she should get spanked for but in the end, no pun intended, she doesn't get spanked unless she submits to the spanking.

Now I truly believe I'm not an asshole when it comes to spanking and wanting things to get done on a timely basis.  I understand how things come up and something simply can't get done due to time restraints.  However, at some point in the NEAR future things should get done.

Women Power today must mean that a woman has the right to do or not do whatever she wants.  House work for many women isn't satisfying because it's something that has to be done over and over and over.  But, I compare it to eating.  You have to eat to stay alive so it's something you do over and over and over too.  Most of the time it's something you have to cook yourself.  Not all of us can go out to a restaurant everyday.

I see value in a daily routine because it helps me focus on those things that must get done.  Others feel routine is boring and a vicious cycle.

I think that enough should be enough.  Even if spanking my wife becomes a daily routine because she's not doing those things she should be doing she should, in good conscious, understand why she should be, and will be, getting spanked!

 

This is the best way to tell my wife she has a spanking coming!

To lessen the severity of the spanking she just needs to confess why she needs a spanking!

Good reasons to spank my wife!

1.  Groceries coming into the house and staying in bags for literally a week and not being put away in the pantry, cupboards, etc.

2.  When I get up in the morning to make coffee and there isn't a clean space on the counter to even prepare coffee.  So, in order to make room I have to do a load of dishes!

3.  Coming home from work to find that I have to do chores that should have already been done when I was at work.

4.  Coming home from work to discover there's no dinner even close to being prepared because my wife is off running errands.  I can't cook because there's no clean area on the counter or stove so it's off to fast food.

5.  There hasn't been any attempt to clean the living room, kitchen table and surrounding area, the kitchen itself, the bathroom, laundry such as towels and not to mention my clothes.  So on top of working full time I will have to do those things too.

These are just a few reasons why my wife is going to find herself across my lap this Saturday.  It's been LONG overdue!!

Adult daughters get spanked too!

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They don't have to like it!

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Burning Dinner is no small matter!

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