When I say no, I mean NO!

Coming home to find the Christmas tree being decorated by a sexy Mrs. Claus is great but when you find out that she plans on going to a retirement home dressed like that it's not good at all,..for her.

Then to top it off she actually looks at me and says, "I'm going to go!"

That's when you grab a bench and even if the window shade is up you put her across your lap and start teaching her to NOT talk back.

That seems to be a constant problem for Holly so after her first OTK she goes to her knees and begins to please but using her lips for something more productive than talking back.

It's always important to maintain control so no matter how well she pleases her bottom must still turn the desired red I like to see.

I had a Ho, ho, ho and merry ol' time with teaching Holly that talking back to me is never a good idea.

Learning to Obey!

I'm not sure why learning to obey is such a hard thing for a submissive to do.  No one is perfect and I don't by any means expect anything close to perfection.  What I do expect, like other REAL Alpha Males who would be called "Dom's" is an honest effort.

My wife will obey to avoid getting spanked.  However, when she gets side tracked and isn't obeying she recognizes a good spanking is healthy for her but by no mean enjoyable.

Holly, on the other hand, has the same attitude but also finds pleasure from being put in her place by a man who does it benevolently.  Holly wants to obey but also wants to be punished because she is aroused by it.

Yesterday I suggested that we concentrate cleaning and arranging a room that was beginning to become a "catch all" for just about everything.  My wife got the feeling that if it wasn't done she'd be looking at the floor while bent over my lap and I could tell it wasn't a view she wanted to re-experience.  So, we had a very productive day with shampooing the rug, arranging and just plain putting things where they should go.  Everyone is pleased with the progress.

Holly, on the other hand, is pleased but showed a bit of procrastination.  Not to mention doing some pouting along the way.  An excellent training method for pouting is her lips around my cock and that's right where they went.  However, she like most submissives, likes her lips around a hard cock so to make it more of a method for disciplining there's a lot of pushing my cock in as far as I can go so she gags.  After doing that for a time the pouting stopped and the right responses began to emerge from her mouth.

It's clear to me now that she will need a lot more training than I imagined.  She already understands that in our relationship she's more of a man toy but it's clear that there needs to be a lot more training in obeying like her sister.  I have a lot of ideas but if there are any readers who want to put in some suggestions and post them I'm open to reading them.      

My wife's sister, Holly.

So I'm at home minding my own business when my sister-in-law comes in to talk to me about a conversation she had with my wife, her sister.

I've come to learn that the two of them had been discussing Holly getting spanked by me for some time now.  The saying, "Misery Loves Company" seems to be a true enough statement with my wife.  She's hinted how Holly has needed her sassy bottom dealt with through a good sound spanking.   

I've sensed from time to time an innocent flirtation coming from Holly but had never given much thought to it.  But after awhile, with my wife talking about her sister needing a good spanking and her throwing out ideas about how a poly household could be run, it was sinking in that something was under foot.

Getting Holly and I in a more intimate setting by spanking her was their way of beginning a poly relationship.  It turned out that Holly wants to be spanked for naughty behavior but also wants to be spanked because it turns her on.