Making an impression!

My wife knows that when she makes that final slide across my lap there's no turning back.

She knows there's no, "Oh, I changed my mind." There's only expose the bare bottom and take what's coming.

She doesn't fight by putting her hands in back of her to protect her sore bottom.  She knows if she does it just gets harder and longer.  The spanking that is.

She does, from time to time, do what I call, "The sky diver" and that's when I know it's really getting through to her.

Much to do about Attitude!

For me, the length of a submissive's or wife's spanking has to do with attitude.  If she goes where she's been sent to receive her spanking that's less swats.  If her bottom is bared by the time I get there then that's less swats too.  If she gets across my lap quickly without hesitating or trying to negotiate then that's even less swats.  It's a matter of attitude.