Texting and Driving

So I'm driving home from work and the person in front of me is going way under the speed limit and I can't get around them.  I knew they were either talking on the phone or texting.  We get up to a light and the pull into the turning lane and sure enough she's texting away.  You can't fully imagine how I wanted to motion for her to pull over in the next available ally so I could blister her bottom.  It wasn't that she was in front of me and in my way but that she was a hazard waiting to happen.

The desire to do myself

One of the main things I am always working on is to NOT masturbate.  The desire comes up daily and I have to tell myself that that's what my wife is for.  And I don't mean it in a negative way.  Her desire is to please me sexually whether it's a handjob, blowjob or me fucking her so it's hard for her to walk afterward.

I'm in control of that and need to simply tell her it's time.  If she's out watering the lawn when I get home from work then she wants me to point into the house to let her know I want her.  She's good a so many things but not when it comes to interpreting what I want sexually and when I want it.  So it's best for both of us for me to direct and instruct.  We both get satisfied and she doesn't have to go through the formidable task of trying to figure out the when and how.

Painting Her Bottom with a Nice Red Glow!

So my wife and I had a little talk regarding her not following through with doing what she said she would do, which was painting a newly built wall.  She admitted that she, of her own free will, volunteered to do the job.  She confessed that I wanted it done within a certain time frame and that she agreed she could do that.  

So here it was Saturday around 1pm and she was about to go run another errand which was to take an additional 2 hours of her time.  So into the bedroom we went and this time straight from her bath.  As she placed herself across my lap she explained, "I'll get it done when I get back, I promise."  My reply, as I began doing my own style of painting which turns her white behind to a nice Red, was, "Oh I know you'll be keeping that promise!"

When she returned home she put on old cloths, got the paint, brushes and rollers out and began what she kept putting off.  In the end, pardon the pun, she did a GREAT job.  What a difference a spanking makes.

The End

So you were asked,..

So you were asked, the you being a submissive, to do something that wasn't at all hard to do and was right up your ally.  You said, "Yes I can do that."  

So I reply, "Can you get it done this week?"

Your answer, "I can do it Wednesday and Thursday."

I then respond with, "Are you sure?  It needs to get done because there are other things to do also.

Your reply, "I can get it done."

So, today is Thursday and it wasn't started yesterday, Wednesday, and it certainly wasn't started today either.  That means not only was it not finished by Thursday but it hasn't even been started.

This is a recurring theme and it seems a good spanking is the only way to change it.  What do you think?  Does my wife have a trip coming across my lap? 

Maybe she likes not sitting down?

Some days I think my wife must like the feeling of not being able to sit down.  She just gets spanked for one thing and then before you know it a few days later she's risking getting spanked for the very same thing again!  Is she thinking I won't spank her since I already have?

A Real Man knows,..

Starting a Spanking Social Club in Washington State

I've decided to call the Society or Club "Tanning Her Hide". There doesn't seem to be much to choose from in Washington state regarding any Socializing with "just" Spankers and Spankees. There is a social gathering in Seattle with a group called "The Palms Seattle" but they mostly meet for pizza, that I'm aware of.

So check out the site and see if it fits your desires and if it does then become a member and lets make it work together. If not a member then join to just follow.

http://tanningherhide.blogspot.com

Where's the beef spanking

One of the things my wife would admit she gives a reasonable amount of effort doing is "misdirection" in regard to her bottom getting spanked.

She knew a spanking was coming when I got home yesterday from work for her attitude and lack of concern toward preparing dinner the evening before.  So when I walked through the door I could clearly see the living room was picked up and vacuumed.  I could hear the laundry going and there she was in the kitchen putting dishes in the dishwasher too.  Those were things that needed to be done but the fact they were all being done at that time is part of her misdirection.  She figured that I would be happy to see what had gotten done and what was being done around the house so I'd forgive, or forget, what needed to happen regarding her spanking.

There have been plenty of times when I've fixed dinner for myself after work.  All of them have been good reasons and I had little to know problem with doing that.  It was a problem Thursday evening because I was just told that she was going to the store because there was a sale.  She didn't mention anything about bringing home a pizza, or fixing dinner when she got home, or me fixing dinner myself.  So when I sent her a text about when she'd home and did she plan on dinner she seemed unconcerned.  It's not that I'm helpless it's that I work all day and it is her job to prepare dinner, or make arrangements for dinner, not mine.

So when I got home Friday after work to find her loading the dishwasher I made it quick with I'll see you in our bed room.  There was no trying to get out of it as I followed her into the room.  I sat down on the edge of the bed as she pulled down and off her pants and panties and then she put herself across my lap.  It's not like this hasn't happened before either, not having dinner ready or planned.  She knows that if she's spanked for something then she'll stay on top of it.  If she's not spanked then she knows she'll continue pushing the limits.  Truth is she likes a man to put his foot down and say, "That's it, no more."  Putting my foot down means making her bottom red but she respects that and if she didn't then she wouldn't willfully put herself across my lap after striping from the waist down. 

I forgot to mention that her submissiveness and obedience to her spanking aroused me so much that after the hugs and kisses, that always follow her spankings, we made love with her red as up in the air and her moaning like she didn't want the sex to stop.

Where's the beef?

Kitchen tables serve a multitude of purposes, not to mention eating food on.  Last night my wife decided to go shopping before fixing dinner and got home far too late for two things.  First, she got home too late to fix dinner and two, she got home too late to be placed over the kitchen table to get her bottom blistered.  It wasn't so much that dinner hadn't been made but her attitude in a text that read, "Poor baby."

Well we'll see how her attitude is when I get home after work today.

If she was my wife I'd,..

So I came upon this video on http://news.yahoo.com/video/woman-gets-busted-hov-lane-193000398.html

and if she was my wife her interview wouldn't have been so up beat and whimsical that's for sure.

Forced Spankings

I could NEVER force a spanking.  In other words fight a female over my lap for her spanking, no matter how bad she needed the spanking either.  To me it's equal to rape and it would be in vain as well.  

When it's understood and agreed that a spanking is how misbehavior and the like is going to be taken care of then that's that.  At times there's a little need to help her across the lap because she's standing there with her pants down and trying to come up with excuses regarding her behavior but she is still going across my lap of her own free will.  She doesn't like it but she does know she has it coming.  She's been warned and she knows she's pushed it as far as she could and now it's time to pay the price.

I've discovered that in the same way long hair is a "Crown" of sorts for many women so too is a blistered bottom.  There bottom has been spanked and whether it's 15 minutes or the next day they get a feeling of being taken care of and nurtured.  They're walking around the mall thinking, "I submit to my husband and I'll bet you wouldn't even think to do so."  For many submissives that's their crown.  They are stronger than other women who don't submit.