The Good wife

The good wife knows to respect her man and he will love her.

The good wife knows to serve her man and he will protect her.

The good wife knows to obey her man and he will guide her.

The good wife knows to submit to her man and he will adore her.

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Young women should be getting spankings right up to their wedding day and from then on their husband and father spank them when needed.

Traditional Gender Roles

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Gender roles today seem to be so very confusing.  It's simple, the man is the Head of the House!

Man it's been awhile since I've posted here.

I couldn't believe how long it's been since I've blogged.  What with Twitter and others I've been busy on other sites.  Check me out on spankher4real.bdsmlr.com and twitter.com/SpankHer4Real.

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There's only one way to spank your wife,..

..and that way is until her bottom is nice and red.  It seems that's the only way they learn!

A good beginning

To all the girls I've spanked before.

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The most productive way to communicate to my wife!

Most couples have their heart to heart talks while sitting on the couch, preparing food in the kitchen or after they've settled into bed.

For the Head of the House this can be a good time to work on getting to the point regarding his wife's behavior.  However, I have found that many times she doesn't fully understand the point I'm trying to make.

I've found the best way to get my point across is to simply sit in an armless chair, put her across my lap and bare her bottom.  In this manner she doesn't know if she's going to get spanked or not but she does have my FULL attention.  And her listening ability improves 200%.

If, while I'm talking, she attempts to make excuses or interrupt me all that's needed is a swat or two and she quickly goes back to listening only.  

I recommend this in all situations were the Head of the House needs to get the point across.  Sometimes it's good, before leaving the house for work, to do this.  I guarantee that throughout her day she will remember the position she was in before you left for work.

Of course, from time to time, it may involve warming her behind and giving it a nice red glow to get your point across but that truly is up to her.  She either listens and doesn't get spanked or she doesn't listen and gets spanked.  Either way it's a win, win for me!

Saddle Sore Sundays

Taylor's well spanked bottom is a good example for us to start off our series "Saddle Sore Sundays". 

At least something good will happen in 2017!

Giving her what she needs.

Understanding the dynamics of spanking

It seems there are more people into BDSM than just spanking, or Domestic Discipline.  To me BDSM is more of a play fantasy escape that couples or people share from time to time.  I think if you say you're into BDSM it's safer than saying you're into, or participate in Domestic Discipline, HOH, spanking.

I've talked to a lot of Spankers and spankees over the years and many still don't understand the dynamic of spanking in context with Domestic Discipline.  Many will have this idea that it's abuse.

Every couple, when getting married, take vows.  The promise to do this and that and so on and so on.  They've most likely had many talks with each other about how their married life will be, or at least dream it will be.  There are hundreds of thousands, if not millions, of couples out there who took their vows and agreed on a great deal of things that would and wouldn't happen in their marriage but had know idea that their spouse would get drunk and beat them regularly.  Or that they had an anger problem and would take out their anger on them and the children.  The list can go on and on.

So, when my wife and I first got together it was understood that I spanked.  She agreed with my philosophy that from time to time a wife needed to go across her husband's lap for more than just one reason.  Believe me, my wife is a strong independent woman and if she didn't want to get spanked she would be able to fight it.  Since, I don't believe in physically taking her across my lap it is something she has to submit to.  In other words, I either send her to our room and tell her I'll be in there shortly.  In which she bares her bottom and waits for me to come in and administer her spanking. Or I will tell her I'll meet her in our room.  In that case I'm sitting on the edge of the bed, she comes in and strips from the waist down and puts herself across my lap for her spanking.   Neither of us see NO abuse there.

In addition, for me, each time that happens I gain a tremendous amount of respect for her.

Noticing her avoidance to getting spanked!

It's been clear lately that my wife doesn't want to find herself in this position in the kitchen.  She doesn't mind being bare from the waist down because she knows I enjoy her being like that.  However, she doesn't like that spanking that can come with a kitchen that's not kept up.

I give her a lot of credit for doing her best to stay on top of things. I notice her effort and appreciate her very much.  She's even seeing other things that need to be taken care of and working on those things too.  The carpet for example is seeing a lot more vacuum cleaner usage and she's making a serious effort to keep the couch clear of miscellaneous items that should be put away.

Spankings are the Great Motivators for wives!

There have been a few things around the house that are in need of my wife's focused attention.  Over the years I've discovered that when I merely hint that something needs to get done, and she knows it's something she's been putting off, she starts getting it done.

She has a strong desire to get things done but allows other things to get in the way to distract her.  Soon there's this little thing that didn't get done and then that thing that gets put off because this other thing happened.

Over the years I've watched her add things to her schedule, or routine, that gives her an excuse for not getting something else done.  She has a way of putting things off and it takes putting her across my lap, baring her bottom and making her wish that she hadn't put things off in the first place.

She hates getting spanked but she also agrees that she needs the spanking.  Spankings are the great motivators for wives and that's not just my opinion it's hers too.

Happy Thanksgiving,..I mean

When they don't do what they're told, spank!

Jamie Learns to Obey or get Spanked!
Jamie has a real hard time obeying. When she is told to do something she doesn't do it and when she is told not to do something she does it. From Ron's point of view it means that she wants a spanking. The best way to correct that behavior is to give her what she wants until she doesn't want it anymore. Giving her a spanking until she cries and begs him to stop is just what Ron has planned for this brat. Ron knows that tamming a wild young woman takes a firm hand and a very red bottom that makes it hard to sit for awhile. (Important Note: The women in Spank Her 4 Real Videos are NOT professional models. The are REAL women who get Spanked 4 Real.) Elements of this video are, REAL spanking, Male Domination, Daddy/daughter, real contact spanking, female submission, bare bottom spanking, daughter spanked by dad, dad spanks daughter, painful spanking, naughty adult daughter Don't forget to check out our DVD store too.. We can burn any combination of clips to ONE DVD also so email us what you'd like and we'll send you a quote. After giving her bottom a nice red glow Ron stops for awhile and allows Jamie to settle down a bit while she is bent over the dinning room table. Then he goes back to her, grabs her tightly and finishes her spanking with a very hard ending. Product Type: Video Clip
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Spanking Toon Friday!

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Understanding Submission, Spanking and the Romance of it all

There is a Romance to spanking that few people understand unless you are into spanking.  I think the idea that people have is that spanking is violent and that the person spanking is angry and taking out their anger on the one they are spanking.  Logically they would assume that the spankee is abused because of the "harm" being done to them.  I don't doubt there are those who spank out of anger and that there are spankees who submit to it out of fear.  But that kind of spanking is NOT what I'm referring to.

The Romance of it all is the willing submission the spankee gives or acknowledges to me.  I never spank on a whim and my wife always knows, either in the back of her mind or because it's obvious, that she deserves the spanking.  There is a TRUST between a Spanker and spankee that can't be duplicated in a "Vanilla"  relationship.  It's an intimacy shared that few couples share.  

My wife trusts that I'll spank her just enough and not go too far.  I trust her that when I say she needs a spanking she will submit to it. There's a bond there that's deeper than anyone can understand unless they are in that kind of relationship.

The other day I was outside in the backyard when my wife came out, walked up to me and gave me a huge hug.  It was the kind of hug that said, "I'm glad you're in my life."  It was a huge that I will never forget because it was a direct line.  She made a direct line from the sliding glass door to me.  It was as though, for that moment, I was the only thing on her mind and she had to get to me and let me know.

Like every couple we have our ups and downs but unlike every couple,..we have more!

Have you ever?

Have you ever come home a bit earlier than you planned and found your house in disarray?  And then wanted to do this to the culprit to teach her a lesson?