What a difference a spanking makes too.

I parked the car and had no idea what was waiting inside.  I figured a few dishes in the sink and some scattered clothes.  That wasn't even close to what I saw.  There were piles and piles of uncleaned clothes, the kids rooms were more than a mess and I won't even mention her room and the bathroom.

 

Right there in the living room I ordered her to pull everything down.  I went to the arm of the sofa and put her over my knee and began to spank and scold and spank and scold.

I spanked her for about 5 minutes and took her by the hand to every room in her house, which was really a 3 bedroom duplex.  Probably 3 to 5 minutes in each room too.  I really gave her some sound spankings but she had been used to it I think from growing up because she never cried.  So I though I hadn't made much of an impression.

I think it was a Thursday or Friday and I gave her the weekend to get the place cleaner.  I seriously didn't think she'd be able to make it spotless over the weekend.  

This is what her bottom looked like on Monday and sure enough she did get the place almost spotless.  That relationship could have continued and been successful but for the chaos in her life she was unwilling to let go.

However, today she attends a church where she lives and is actively involved in it.  It took years for her to find a more stable path but she had to do it herself.  So I've learned over the years that there are many things you can't spank out of someone, unless they are committed to change.  If they truly want to change and want spanking to be their punishment for not changing or trying then spanking doesn't work.